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Hey you guys, So its been a while and I thought you needed some sort of explanation as to why I haven’t been blogging as much as before. First off, Happy New Year! I hope you all had a fabulous Christmas and that this year is amazing for you all. Secondly, I withdrew/deferred from my…

Toxic.

This is awkward because I haven’t written a blog post in over a month now. I wish I had some big, bold excuse as to why I haven’t posted but the truth; I’m pretty rubbish. No apologies, I’m just exhausted. But I’m back and I want to talk about a topic that I’ve wanted to…

Is Coming Out Necessary?

I have been super excited to write this blog post but I was also completely unsure how to write it. Although this is going to be a fairly long post, I ask you to bare with me and see my point in writing this. So what I’m going to do first is pose a question…

Pride 2017

On 29th July 2017, I experienced my first LGBTQ+ pride parade with my best-friend and my girlfriend. This particular friend is like a little sister to me and was there for me throughout my entire coming out process, as well as being the first person that I openly told I was gay so it meant…

#PrayForManchester

The recent bombing in Manchester at Ariana Grande’s concert has really hit me, if I’m honest. I honestly feel lucky that I did not attend this concert but am so heartbroken for the thousands of people who did and have lost various loved ones at this tragic time. Having attended concerts and music festivals since…

// Am I happy? – Update //

Recently, many people have been noticing that I seem “well” and “happier”. Truth is, I am. I feel so good at the moment and its having an influence on everything that I do. Even today, someone that I used to work with told me that I look really happy and seem much better than I…

“Coming out”

I cannot explain how scary it can be to come out to your friends and family. It comes with a billion psychological, social, emotional and physical stresses that can have such a strong effect on an individual. I have known since I was 12 years old, but came out when I was 17 years old. I…

Moving on..

To be upset about a break-up is okay. To find it difficult to move on from someone is also okay. In fact, its normal. What isn’t okay is making someone feel bad for breaking up with you. Break ups happen and that’s life. You may think that everything is perfect, and that it’s all going…

“Bad days”

“I understood myself only after i’d destroyed myself. And only in the process of fixing myself, did i know who i really was” We all have those days where we can’t get out of bed in the morning. Where we get stuck in that rut and we feel like we cant get out. I’ve been…

What is love?

Love is chilling with someone, in complete silence but simply enjoying their company and feeling safe, purely through knowing that they are there. It’s dancing with someone in the street, with a thousand other people surrounding you and not caring about their stares. Love is doing anything to cheer your person up, even if it…