#AMillionDreams *1

When I was younger I had a million and one different dreams that weren’t likely to ever become a reality. Dreams to become a rockstar, an astronaut, an artist, an actress and so many other things that a billion other children are dreaming of every single minute. We flood our minds with these ideas, desperate…

5 Things That Make Me Happy.

I believe that we spend way too much time thinking about the negative things in our lives than the positive. We are quick to imagine the worst possible outcomes instead of thinking of a positive outcome from a circumstance… and this needs to stop. Its easier said than done, trust me I know. But lets…

What I Want From 2019

Happy 2019 everyone! I’m not the sort of person to write new years resolutions each year, because I’m also not the type of person who is going to stick to them. However, after the roller-coaster of 2018, I wanted to make a few “plans” for 2019 and stick to them. So here goes. Travel more….

Children And Mental Health. ft Talla.

Grab some quavers, pour yourself a cup of coffee (or gin, whichever you prefer) and take a seat because this is going to be a long one. I have no children, so I’m not going to sit here and pretend to understand what its like to be a parent who: A) Has a mental health…

#WorldMentalHealthDay

As it’s World Mental Health day, I had to write something in celebration of it. I’ve always said that mental health needs to be spoken about a lot more than it already is. Services need more money, more staff and more time with clients that need so much support than can ever be imagined. The…

This blog post was written on a beach.

This blog post was written on a beach in Holland. With a notepad and pen, looking out to the sea. Its a windy day so excuse me if this post is a little short but I wanted to document this moment to prove to myself that my anxiety isn’t everything about me. You see, strange…

Thoughts of an ENGAGED lesbian????

So, the title says it all. On the 4th August 2018, my girlfriend asked me to marry her at Brighton Pride. It was the best and scariest moment of my life so far but I don’t want to talk too much about the scary stuff, lets talk about how it happened. We went to Brighton…

“You try to smile it away, some things you can’t disguise.”

“I’m just tired.” I said this to a friend today and it just got me thinking about how many different meanings this sentence has. Stayed up late watching a film? I’m just tired. Annoyed at someone’s bullsh*t? I’m just tired. Sitting on your bathroom floor at 2am, crying your eyes out and wondering what you’re…

A letter to my friends.

I’ve wanted to do this series for a while where I write letters to certain people in my life and my friends have been a huge support for me recently so I guess that this is a good place to start.. Hi friends, I want to thank you all. I want to thank you for…

“I am a goddess, I am a queen”

Hi guys, Yes, I titled this blog post by quoting a Jessie J song. I’m not even sorry. As you can see the title of this blog post, I want to talk about having confidence in yourself and your body. I know for a fact that I will see a perfectly slim girl in the…